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40cakesThis morning on Y100 (my morning non-music listening of choice), they were talking about a woman in Salt Lake City, who, upon finding out that she needed a C-section to deliver her twins or they might die, refused the C-section. Not because of religious beliefs. Because she didn't want the scar.
She delivered her children vaginally, and one of the twins was dead. An autopsy has led doctors to believe that both would have lived if she had done as advised. She was arrested on charges of murder, with $250,000 bail posted.
I don't think it's possible to talk about this without bringing up abortion (though I'd have to say that at the nine-month mark, we're a little beyond "my body, my choice"). Or blind-ass stupidity. Sweetie, if you'd rather have your babies die than mar your precious body, then maybe abortion and a more permanent birth control are for you.
I've read an article (too lazy to look it up now, but hey, it's a slow day at work - maybe later) about a childless, unmarried woman who asked for a tubal ligation because she never wanted any children. Her doctor suggested she undergo a psychiatric exam. Where was someone like that at any point in this woman's life? Maybe we're looking at it the wrong way, and IUDs should be inserted upon puberty, and you have to go through a psychiatric exam to prove you CAN have children, and have it removed.
You don't just squat out babies and let them raise themselves. Being a parent involves a lot of devotion and responsibility. You are now no longer living for yourself - you have a little life to care for and protect and raise and teach and guide. Maybe she shouldn't be sent to jail - just sterilized and have the living baby taken away from her. And forced to work at a burn clinic, or somewhere she can see life-altering scars every day for the rest of her life.
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She delivered her children vaginally, and one of the twins was dead. An autopsy has led doctors to believe that both would have lived if she had done as advised. She was arrested on charges of murder, with $250,000 bail posted.
I don't think it's possible to talk about this without bringing up abortion (though I'd have to say that at the nine-month mark, we're a little beyond "my body, my choice"). Or blind-ass stupidity. Sweetie, if you'd rather have your babies die than mar your precious body, then maybe abortion and a more permanent birth control are for you.
I've read an article (too lazy to look it up now, but hey, it's a slow day at work - maybe later) about a childless, unmarried woman who asked for a tubal ligation because she never wanted any children. Her doctor suggested she undergo a psychiatric exam. Where was someone like that at any point in this woman's life? Maybe we're looking at it the wrong way, and IUDs should be inserted upon puberty, and you have to go through a psychiatric exam to prove you CAN have children, and have it removed.
You don't just squat out babies and let them raise themselves. Being a parent involves a lot of devotion and responsibility. You are now no longer living for yourself - you have a little life to care for and protect and raise and teach and guide. Maybe she shouldn't be sent to jail - just sterilized and have the living baby taken away from her. And forced to work at a burn clinic, or somewhere she can see life-altering scars every day for the rest of her life.
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Date: 2004-03-12 07:38 am (UTC)And what a lovely picture, too.
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Date: 2004-03-12 07:42 am (UTC)But Gawd, wumman. At least try not to look stoned. I've decided that if I ever have a mugshot, I'm going to smile and flash a peace sign.
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Date: 2004-03-12 07:50 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-03-12 07:54 am (UTC)>^..^
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Date: 2004-03-12 09:08 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-03-12 09:57 am (UTC)Apparantly her mug is so ugly that my computer here at work finds it offensive and refuses to load it.
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Date: 2004-03-12 10:02 am (UTC)FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK. She let her baby die over a three inch scar. Maybe we should tie her up in a little sack until she's squeezed to death, too. GODDAMIT, that's like murdering your neighbor because you heard it would get rid of your zits!
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Date: 2004-03-12 10:16 am (UTC)http://i.a.cnn.net/cnn/2004/US/West/03/11/mother.charged.ap/story.rowland.ap.jpg
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Date: 2004-03-12 10:22 am (UTC)Well, she kinda got the same result.
That's it; I'm going home, taking a digital picture of the nasty scar on my shoulder, and posting it. So I can ruin my life or something.
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Date: 2004-03-12 10:29 am (UTC)phhhh!
Date: 2004-03-12 11:22 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-03-13 09:09 pm (UTC)Karma, please do not hit me with major backlash from that comment, because you know I speak the truth. *bows*
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Date: 2004-03-13 09:10 pm (UTC)>^..^
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Date: 2004-03-13 09:16 pm (UTC)It's funny, we all got into a HUGE debate over it at the library, with everyone of us coming to a single agreement. Sick Stupid Bitch.
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Date: 2004-03-13 09:18 pm (UTC)>^..^
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Date: 2004-03-13 09:18 pm (UTC)